It was never my intention to change the world when I decided to adopt a second dog….my only motivation was to make a difference in the life of one. Perhaps sharing this story will inspire a few others to do the same?
During these past few weeks….I have encountered far more sad stories than I thought possible. I was amazed at the number of pets simply being dropped off at the shelters by owners that no longer wanted them. I saw one dog dragged out of a car with a quick pat on the head and a “Don’t worry…they’ll find you a new home.”
I saw dogs and cats being kept two, three, and four to a kennel. But what’s the alternative? There is no more room for all of these unwanted animals. Shelters are doing their best…but there simply isn’t room for them all….and so these animals are being kept in crowded conditions in the hopes of eventually placing them in loving homes.
Equally sad….I met good people that were willing to adopt dogs themselves, but (similar to my recent experience) had been turned down by rescue groups as “unsuitable dog owners”. I heard the story of a gentleman that had been rejected because he had put his dog on an overhead line after discovering it was able to climb his fence. This was considered “cruel” and “inhumane treatment” by the rescue agency. I also learned about a rescue that actually went so far as to call other shelters in order to block certain adopters. (Where were these people when Michael Vick was acquiring dogs?)
Just as bad….I encountered situations where an agency “fudged” the breed of the dog a little to make it more adoptable. Shepherd mix…instead of Rottweiler. Terrier mix instead of Pit Bull. I realize that this may be the result of honest mistakes….or it might be an attempt to let prospective owners give the animal a chance rather than dismissing it based on the breed alone. Either way….this kind of false advertising can’t be good for the dog or the prospective owner who may not realize what he’s getting into.
There seems to be a new trend toward “politically correct” dog ownership. Chains, tie-outs, overhead lines and letting a dog sleep outside are beginning to be considered abusive and cruel. I do think it’s great that people want to see animals treated better…but some of this goes too far. I worry that some of these new ideas are the reason that many folks are being turned away as pet owners.
The fence issue, for example, is one that particularly bothers me. It is rare to find a person that will install a dog-proof fence around the entire perimeter of their property. (This is probably due to the simple fact that it is irritating to open and close a gate each time you drive your car in or out) And so a decision is usually made to convert one part of the yard into the “dog area” so as not to interfere with the parts of the yard that are used for sitting out, the swimming pool, the vegetable garden, etc. etc. etc.
No matter how great the intentions at the beginning, the “dog area” eventually becomes less pleasant than the rest of the yard. (Let’s face it: nobody ever hires landscapers to design the “dog area”.) Due to digging, running around, shedding, marking and doing it’s “business” the grass dies and the ground becomes patchy, unkempt and full of dog smells. And so now the dog is confined to an area that it’s people really don’t want to enter…and so visiting is now done throught the fence…when the family is not busy doing something else.
Is this really the best way to treat a dog?
It is my hope that more folks that are concerned about dogs will exert some common sense on these issues…and thus encourage more people to add a dog or cat to their family. Now some do, of course…BUT…Not every dog needs a fence….Not every dog prefers to sleep indoors….Not every dog likes to ride in a stroller. A good dog owner needs to have love, compassion, patience, and common sense. If you have these qualities and are willing to share your home with a dog….then I hope you will consider adopting a pet that needs a good home…no matter what a particular rescue agency may tell you.
Not every dog, or breed of dog will be right for your family. But chances are….one will.
And you can make a difference in the life of that one.
And for that one…you will change the world.
Some links to check out:
www.petfinder.com
http://www.pedigree.com/03Adoption/
Thanks!